Rainbow Dragon's Lair

Laura Rainbow Dragon

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I went by the webpage, not your description. It's that sort of day, isn't it? 🤦‍♀️
Ah. Okay. Mermaid. Cool! Yes, I can do that one. Thank you!

I apologize for the URL confusion. I should have put the links in in a way that doesn't display the URL. Because yeah: Pocket Yoga does sometimes put words in their URLs that don't match with what even they say a pose is called in their own text!

I think "pigeon" may be the most confusing pose name in yoga. The word is applied to so many different poses, and so many of those poses have alternate pose names as well!
 

JCU

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I don't blame the URL confusion on you at all! My brain has been all out of sorts today. I just tried to put the bottle of juice away in the cupboard I pulled the cup out of. If that doesn't sum up today, I don't know what does!

I'm so used to doing the same two pigeon poses (swan as part of my cool down stretching and mermaid as an active stretch) that I honestly forgot the MANY variations.
 

Laura Rainbow Dragon

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December 30:

Cardinal Points:
First Thing Water: :v:
10 Minutes of Mindfulness: :v: (moving meditation, shavasana)
Dance / Yoga: :v: (Quiet Room)
Gratitude: :v:

Group of Seven:
hands & wrists: :v: (Wrist Pain)
calf raises: :v: (60 sec. one-legged)
plank: :v: (Iron Core)
feathered peacock: :v: (60 sec. dolphin)
hip flexors: :v: (Fit December)
hip abductors: :v: (60 sec. side-lying leg lifts)
glutes: :v: (Glutes of Steel)

Programs & Challenges:
Push & Pull: push-ups
Iron Core: Day 19
Glutes of Steel: Day 19
Fit December: Days 13-16

Mileage:
running: :x:
hiking: 8.65 km

Rain in the morning so only a short walk then. Met up with an older lady with a small white dog in our neighbourhood parkette. We have met these two before and it did not go well.

On our first encounter, the woman had said her dog was friendly and liked big dogs, but when Shelby got close, her dog snarled and snapped at Shelby. Shelby snapped back, but no harm was done since I had seen the other dog's reaction and pulled Shelby away in time. So no physical contact was made. The other woman, however, did not notice her dog snarling and snapping and so blamed Shelby for the bad encounter.

The next time we saw these two the woman said, "Oh no! Your dog isn't coming near my Oscar. She nearly bit his head off last time!"

I didn't say anything. That woman was going to believe what she wanted to believe, and I didn't want Shelby near a dog who behaved like that towards her anyhow. She has plenty of other friends who are actually friendly in this neighbourhood!

This day, the woman thought she recognized Shelby, but she did not recognize me. (I wasn't wearing a hat. So I expect she assumed I was a new human, since she's never seen anyone with hair like mine before. I was wearing a wide-brimmed sunhat that covered my hair on our previous encounters.)

"Does anyone else walk your dog?" she asked me.

I told her no, just me.

Then she launched into this story of how she'd met another dog that looked just like Shelby, and that dog's owner had said her dog was friendly, but then the dog "tried to bite Oscar's head off."

I didn't say anything. Just reiterated that I was the only person who walks Shelby.

So the woman decided it was okay for Shelby and Oscar to meet. But Oscar snarled and snapped at Shelby again. I was ready for this and had kept some distance between the two dogs, and Shelby did not react. She just accepted my pulling her away again.

This time the woman did notice that it was her dog who had reacted badly. She got him under control and coached him on greeting Shelby better, and we tried again and the two dogs did fine with one another. So I guess they are friends now. (Until the spring when I'm wearing my sun hat again and Oscar's human assumes Shelby is that other old black lab who's mean.)

In the evening things had dried up some. So we went for a longer walk. Met up with some friends in the Village. Human friends of mine--one who had been a colleague at the fitness clubs we both used to work at, and one who'd been a league mate in a roller derby league (that was not a friendly league at all, but this person was friendly). They were out walking their two dogs, who had a great meeting with Shelby. This made me happy because these are humans I want to spend time with now that I'm back in London. So I'm glad our whole families can be friends too!

After visiting with our friends for a bit, we tried hiking north on the TVP. Did not even make it as far as the fish, however, because the trail was flooded. Shelby did not resist my attempts to turn us around when continuing to go forward would have necessitated swimming!

Writing:
day off
new fiction words: 0
fiction YTD: 161,295 + ? (still have some hand-written stuff to type up)
story-a-week challenge: 50 of 52 completed
54 stories in my 54th year challenge: 50 of 54 completed****
writing days this week: 0/5

**** Okay. No more messing around. I am confident I will make the base challenge of one story a week now. But if I want to hit my 54 stories in my 54th year challenge, I need to knuckle down and write at least two stories this week!

French:
Fluenz

Scheduling Habits:
GOBOT: :rstar::rstar::rstar:
SOOT: :x: (-4)
GBOT: :x: (-2)
GR: :x: (-2)

Cumulative Habit Scores:
Gaming Rules: 82
SOOT: 65
GBOT: 71

Another late night and points lost for no real reason. These days between Christmas and New Year's feel like a strange, liminal time. I don't celebrate either date. But I cannot help but notice them living where I do. I'm self-employed and have a lot of work I need to get done this week. But many of my neighbours are on vacation. So other people's schedules have been weird. The weather has been weird. Things just feel weird.

So I spent some time playing Wingspan instead of working. Which led to the late night.
Things are good though.

A bunch of the work I need to do this week is stuff related to moving house that I have been putting off, that I really need to attend to now that the calendar year is rolling over. Some of this is stuff I've never had to do before. The weirdness may just be stress related to that.

Streaks:
Consecutive days of working out: 113
Consecutive days of French study: 1505
 

Laura Rainbow Dragon

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December 31:

Cardinal Points:
First Thing Water: :v:
10 Minutes of Mindfulness: :v: (moving meditation, shavasana)
Dance / Yoga: :v: (Quiet Room)
Gratitude: :v:

Group of Seven:
hands & wrists: :v: (Talk to the Hand)
calf raises: :v: (Ankle Recovery)
plank: :v: (60 sec. forearm plank)
feathered peacock: :v: (60 sec. dolphin)
hip flexors: :v: (Fit December)
hip abductors: :v: (Fit December, Iron Core)
glutes: :v: (Fit December, Iron Core, Glutes of Steel)

Programs & Challenges:
Push & Pull: negative pull-ups
Iron Core: Day 20
Glutes of Steel: Day 20
Fit December: Days 17-20

Mileage:
running: :x:
hiking: 4.2 km

A messy, "mixed precipitation" day. We did our regular neighbourhood loop in the morning. Saw Oscar again. I was wearing a hat this day. My tam, not my sun hat. But still, my colourful hair was covered.

"Oh, look, Shelby! It's your new friend Oscar who you just met yesterday!" I said.

Oscar's human bought it and said, "Yes, Oscar. It's okay. That's the nice older dog." Then she petted Shelby and told her she was very sweet.

Now Oscar and Shelby are BFFs.

In the evening I let Shelby choose if we would do the regular (3K) loop or the short loop just around the block (1.2 km). She thought about it long and hard, but in the end the cold, almost-snow rain won, and she chose the shorter route.

Writing:
day off
new fiction words: 0
fiction YTD: 161,295 + ? (still have some hand-written stuff to type up)
story-a-week challenge: 50 of 52 completed
54 stories in my 54th year challenge: 50 of 54 completed
writing days this week: 0/5

French:
reading

Scheduling Habits:
GOBOT: :x:
SOOT: :rstar::rstar::rstar:
GBOT: :rstar::rstar:
GR: :rstar::rstar:

Cumulative Habit Scores:
Gaming Rules: 84
SOOT: 68
GBOT: 74

Streaks:
Consecutive days of working out: 114
Consecutive days of French study: 1506

This next month I need to move into a new way of financing my life that I have never used before. There was a bit of a learning curve for me to figure out the logistics of how to do it, not to mention the tax implications. And just the fact of needing to finance my life this way now is stressful. Hence, there was some procrastinating involved in dealing with this. There was a thing that likely would have benefited me significantly if I'd got it done in 2024. But doing it turned out to be more complicated (and more importantly, significantly slower) than I had initially been led to believe. (And yeah: there were signs I would have been well-served by paying better attention to that the person who told me it would be an easy and instant thing didn't know what he was talking about. But at the time I was super stressed out and had other things on my mind.) Anyhow... Long story short: I did not get the important-to-get-done-in-2024 thing done in 2024. Which sucks for me, but likely will not be the difference between being okay and financial ruin. So I'm moving on.

Getting the above thing dealt with (even though I ultimately failed to meet a financially important deadline) lifted the end-of-year stress that had been weighing me down off my shoulders. (Other than discovering that a process I had been told I'd be able to do quickly and by myself actually cannot be done by me and takes several days to complete, the rest of what I learned this day has positive implications for me. And the learning had to be done--so that is an important thing which I did succeed in doing this day!) This resulted in an immediate improvement in my productivity. I got two loads of laundry done. A load of dishes. Baked banana muffins. (In two batches, because I had to use my toaster oven, which can only fit a 6-muffin pan.) Got the cover off the bake element in the big oven. Discovered the problem there is definitely not something I can repair myself. Photographed the problem. Sent the photos to my landlord's property manager. (Getting the oven fixed--as with everything else that involves my new landlord--will likely be a slow and tedious process that's likely to impact what food I'll be able to serve at my upcoming Rainbow Day feast. But I got the ball rolling, and at least I should learn soon whether there's even a chance the oven will be fixed in time for my feast or I should just plan now to somehow feed everyone without it.) And I made the invitations for my Rainbow Day celebration and sent them out to everyone. Yeah!

Today I need to do more baking (I cannot allow the problem with the oven to spoil any more food) and more dishes and find some documentation I need to deal with some things I need to deal with tomorrow (i.e.: I need to sort through the rest of the crap I brought here from the old house and then shoved into boxes and totes and shoved said boxes and totes into corners and cupboards to get it out of the way without first cataloguing what was in them). So a full day. But at least it's relaxing work.
 

Laura Rainbow Dragon

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January 1:

Cardinal Points:
First Thing Water: :v:
10 Minutes of Mindfulness: :v: (moving meditation, nature therapy)
Dance / Yoga: :v: (Quiet Room)
Gratitude: :v:

Group of Seven:
hands & wrists: :v: (Wrist Pain)
calf raises: :v: (Total Body Strength, some extra one-legged)
plank: :v: (Iron Core, Plank Hero, Total Body Strength)
feathered peacock: :v: (60 sec. dolphin)
hip flexors: :v: (Standing Abs, Fit December)
hip abductors: :v: (Fit December)
glutes: :v: (Fit December, Total Body Strength, Glutes of Steel)

Programs & Challenges:
Push & Pull: push-ups (done in Total Body Strength)
Iron Core: Day 21
Glutes of Steel: Day 21
Fit December: Day 21
Total Body Strength: Day 1*
Standing Abs: Day 1
Plank Hero: Day 1

* Did TBS on Level 1 due to the push-ups. But I did 12 for each set. So pretty good for me. (Especially coming in to these right after plank rotations!) First set was 12 straight. Second set had a mini down-dog break after rep 10. Third set had a longer down-dog break after rep 6 and another mini one after rep 10. Held the plank throughout the last three exercises on each set (well, except for the down dogs!). Took the full 2 minutes rest between sets.

Mileage:
running: :x:
hiking: 13.8 km

Tried the TVP North again this day. The river is still very high. But the main trail was passable. There was no sign of the Gizzard Shad. (What had been a trickling stream coming down from the storm sewers to feed the cove they were congregating in is now a gushing river.) Saw a Bald Eagle and two Red-tailed Hawks on our outward bound journey. The hawks were circling very close together and vocalizing. Which is how I first knew they were hawks. The eagle was soaring high above them, and the hawks, being much closer to me, appeared the same size as the eagle. From a distance I thought I might be looking at one adult and two juvenile eagles. But then the hawks started talking, and well, Bald Eagles are just not that loud!

We were not able to take our usual riverside foot path coming home. (It was still underwater.) When I turned us back to backtrack to the paved path, however, Miss Shelby decided this was an opportunity to explore farther north. So she took us north past the university. Then she turned into the parking lot of an apartment building. She was hot to trot! Definitely had a plan about where she wanted to go (although we were by this point on a route we have never taken before). I let her lead for a bit. Until her route took us out to a main road with heavy traffic, which Shelby wanted to cross. I suggested we could instead turn south and walk along the sidewalk. Shelby agreed to this. She then led us back to the university. From there a little gentle suggesting on my part got us back to the TVP and our southbound route home.

On the way home we saw three Bald Eagles circling around together at the forks. Other than this, it was mostly the usual suspects: Mallards, Canada Geese, and Herring Gulls. Saw the Pekin on land, wandering around with a flock of Canada Geese. Pekin ducks are taxonomically still considered to be Mallards. But this one is huge compared to the wild Mallards. It is almost as big as the geese! Also saw a Norther Cardinal, heard but did not see a Belted Kingfisher, and heard a few Black-capped Chickadees. (Likely "saw" these too. But this is a guess based on seeing small birds in areas where chickadees were calling. I did not get a good enough look to identify any of the smalls by sight.)

We met up with three other birders on this hike. One, a woman alone with a camera. I asked her what she'd seen that day.

"Nothing," she told me. "Everyone's hiding."

Later we met a couple out together, a man with a camera, and a woman with binoculars. The man was photographing something across the river, which I suspected was Mallards.

After he'd taken his shot I approached and asked him if he was photographing the ducks.

"Ducks, geese, trees. Anything alive," he told me. "Some things not alive too." This couple were out there to enjoy nature and didn't care if the nature they saw that day was common things we get here everyday or not.

I encounter both of these very distinct attitudes often when out hiking in nature. Some people are happy to experience whatever nature brings to them that day. Others have a very definite agenda that they want to see something special, and a narrow definition of what that is.

We met another couple out on the trail, hiking with a young girl. When I first spotted them, the parents were both standing still with their faces turned up to the sky. They were very intent on whatever they were looking at, but I could not see what it was as they were staring pretty much right at the sun. When I got near I asked them what they saw up there.

"Nothing," the man told me. "We're recharging our solar batteries." (They'd had their eyes closed and their faces turned to the sun just to enjoy the warmth of an all-too-rare winter sun on their faces.)

Writing:
worked on a new short story
new fiction words: ? - writing was by hand
fiction YTD: 161,295 + ? (still have some hand-written stuff to type up)
story-a-week challenge: 50 of 52 completed
54 stories in my 54th year challenge: 50 of 54 completed
writing days this week: 1/5

French:
Fluenz

Scheduling Habits:
GOBOT: :rstar::rstar:
SOOT: :rstar::rstar::rstar:
GBOT: :rstar:
GR: :rstar:

Cumulative Habit Scores:
Gaming Rules: 85
SOOT: 71
GBOT: 75

Streaks:
Consecutive days of working out: 115
Consecutive days of French study: 1507
 

Laura Rainbow Dragon

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I hope the appliance tech guy could fix your stove easily enough. So glad your landlord agreed to hire one! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Thank you, @FlowersandPetals . I will find out soon!

And yes, I'm thankful he's coming. My landlord used to try to get his brother to do everything. His brother is a carpenter but has no special skills with appliance repairs. Also, I'm guessing my landlord doesn't pay his brother very much because he's only ever "available" to work for him every other Sunday.

In Ontario landlords have the right to schedule maintenance jobs inside residential units on weekends, so long as the work is done between 8AM and 8PM. But it's a hassle for me. Weekends are when I'm mostly likely to have scheduled social activities I want to attend that might necessitate leaving Shelby home alone. They're also when I'm most likely to be entertaining friends in my unit. I would much rather my landlord schedule work during business hours--which is when one would expect it to get done if he hired a professional and not a family member!

When I took possession of this unit, the water to my washing machine was turned off because the machine was leaking. This was a problem which both the property manager and the landlord's brother told me had been going on for "years". The landlord's brother finally fixed the problem six weeks after I moved in here. After failing to do it the weekend I took possession of the place (even though he was in the unit that day working on other stuff). And then trying to show up two weeks later without giving me any notice. (I did not answer the door. I'm entitled to 24-hours' notice under the law before my landlord or any of his representatives or contractors can enter the unit. And having seen before I even had a signed lease that this landlord is someone who is going to attempt to usurp my rights, and having heard from my upstairs neighbours that the brother showing up with no notice and then feigning innocence that he didn't know they had not been informed was normal behaviour, I was determined to teach my landlord and his staff right away that that behaviour was not going to fly with me.) And then trying to show up again two weeks after that (when I was notified of the day he would be coming but not given any time frame--which also violates my rights under the law), and my consenting that I would allow him entry into the unit after noon. (I wasn't informed until noon the day before, so I was holding to my 24-hours. Because I cannot just wait around for the guy all day.--Which actually I'm not required to do at all. I'm just required to allow my landlord entry, if and only if he provides me with the required 24-hours' notice of the time and a valid reason for entry. I'm not responsible for being here to let people into the unit. It is my legal right to not be home and consent to my landlord letting himself into the unit in my absence and supervising the work himself.) And then the brother not showing up on that day either, and nobody bothering to contact me to tell me that he would not be showing up. And then finally, finally coming around two weeks after that (when I was given notice with a reasonable time frame--third time's a charm, I guess!) and doing what turned out to have been quite a small job!

But this appliance repair guy a.) actually knows how to repair appliances. (A useful skill under the circumstances!) and b.) calls me to give me advanced notice of when he'll be coming (which involves a discussion of when I would like him to come within the time slots he has available for me, not simply a "this is the wildly-inconvenient-for-you time at which I'm going to show up. Deal with it!" notification) and we agree upon a two hour window during which he will show up. (The industry standard where I lived before here was 4 hours. So I'm pretty happy with this guy for narrowing it down to two.) And then he actually shows up when he says he will, or else he calls me if he needs to reschedule.

So yeah. I'm pretty happy it's this guy who's coming and not the brother (or my landlord trying to pretend that the bake element in my oven suddenly stopping working isn't a problem but a feature--he's pulled that one with other issues I've had in the past too!)
 

FlowersandPetals

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"I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus. Phil. 3:14"
I don’t think I would’ve rented the unit if I knew the landlord was a slumlord to begin with. But that’s your personal decision and I’m not judging. We can’t always “fix” people, as much as we try.

As much as I’m trying to get out of the apartment I live in, I’ve had to turn down units because of the ridiculous terms of the lease which would cost us more money in the end. That dog that attacked me a few years ago still lives in this complex because the owners lied about important details and my word wasn’t taken seriously.

Basically it all comes down to money. Even with good laws in place, the loopholes make them almost useless. I hope you do much better.
 

Laura Rainbow Dragon

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I don’t think I would’ve rented the unit if I knew the landlord was a slumlord to begin with.
I did not have a choice.

I spent the past 15 years of my life living with my parents in their home, helping to care for my father who was extremely disabled with Multiple Sclerosis. (He had to be spoon fed by me and my mother level of disabled.) My mother was doing well for her age, but she is 83 years old. So she was needing more and more help too. I did not have an outside job. My work was helping my parents.

Both of them had promised me that when my father died I would be able to remain living in the house, rent free, in exchange for continuing to help my mother. As she needed very much less help than my father needed, this was supposed to be an opportunity for me to work on my writing, and build up a body of work, such that when my mother died, I would a.) inherit 50% of her estate (my parents did not have a huge estate outside of their principal residence, but they did own their principal residence free and clear of any mortgage and had no other debts) and b.) hopefully have some kind of income from my writing.

But three months after my father died, my mother experienced a catastrophic ruptured aneurysm in her brain. This incident did not kill her. But it did destroy both her physical and her cognitive health. She is now legally considered to be (and is) non compos mentis. And she had named her son, not me, as her power of attorney and executor of her estate. My mother now lives in a long term care home, and I was kicked to the curb with no income and no inheritance after having been "out of the work force" for over 15 years, at the age of 53, with a large breed dog, in a province which is in a housing crisis (near zero vacancy rate and homeless encampments in pretty much every community). To top it all off: the person my mother had named her executor took from me the car our mother had promised to bequeath to me, and he cut off her support of Shelby (a dog who my mother and I adopted together with the agreement that I would be physically responsible for her care, and my mother would be financially responsible for it).

With no job, no income, and a large dog, it was extremely difficult convincing anyone to rent to me. So yes, my landlord is a slumlord. And I knew before I signed the lease I would likely have problems with him. But I do not live on the street.
 

FlowersandPetals

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"I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus. Phil. 3:14"
I’m so sorry :hug: This is why I’m so careful about making judgements. I didn’t know your situation. I’m really sorry about everything you’ve been going through and I hope things work out much better for you this year.
Season 10 Hug GIF by Friends
 
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